A few posts ago I argued why I don't like the term "patriarchy."
Two caveats. Having watched a few more old movies, patriarchy clearly WAS an excellent term for North America 40 years ago. Women weren't supposed to work, were supposed to obey husbands, had to stay in their place, the whole 9 yards.
These days I think sexism has mostly just blurred into a general miasma of resentment of others.
The other caveat is supplied by right wing uber douche John Ziegler. As witnessed here.
He wants to date "someone who is... rational, which I realize is an oxymoron for a woman... [But] ideally you'd find someone with a manageable degree of irrationality. You're probably going to conclude that this is somehow mysogynistic but it's not."
It takes a special kind of person to say "I don't hate women, I'm just saying they're crazy."
This idea brought to you by the same people who thought up "I don't hate black people, but I can't help they're all criminals!" Funnily enough, not one of them has yet been spotted saying "I don't hate white guys, even though they're just all arrogant asshats with penis issues." I don't know, it's a mystery.